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Boundaries, Burnout, Hypervigilence, Mental Health, nervous system, People Pleasing, Relationships
21 hours ago
Why Do I Keep Attracting Narcissists? (And What’s Really Going On)

Why Do I Keep Attracting Narcissists? If you keep ending up in relationships where you feel anxious, emotionally exhausted, confused, unseen, or as though you are constantly trying to earn love, you…

Sara Vida May 10, 2026
Somatic Trauma Coach
anxiety, Hypervigilance, Mental Health, Overwhelm, Relationships, Stress
1 week ago
Why Do I Think People Are Mad at Me? (Even When They’re Not)

Why Do I Think People Are Mad at Me? (Even When They’re Not) You leave the conversation… and then something shifts At the time, it felt normal. Nothing obvious was said. No…

Sara Vida May 2, 2026
Body Based Healing
anxiety, Breathing, Breathing Techniques, Nervous System Health, Stress
3 weeks ago
5 Breathing Techniques for Anxiety When Overwhelmed

5 Breathing Techniques for Anxiety When anxiety builds, it rarely starts with a thought. It starts in your body. Your breathing changes without you noticing. It becomes quicker, shallower. Your chest tightens.…

Sara Vida April 23, 2026
Body Based Therapy
anxiety, Nervous System Health, Sleep, Stress
3 weeks ago
Why Do I Wake Up Feeling Anxious? (And What’s Actually Going On)

Why Do I Wake Up Feeling Anxious? You wake up and it’s there immediately. A tightness in your chest. A sense of unease you can’t quite place. Your mind already moving, before…

Sara Vida April 19, 2026
Nervous System Healing
Boundaries, Communication, Mental Health, Overwhelm, People Pleasing
4 weeks ago
Why Do I Feel Guilty for Saying No? (Even When I Know I Shouldn’t)

Why Do I Feel Guilty For Saying No? You know you don’t want to do something. You can feel it clearly. You’re tired, stretched, or it just doesn’t work for you. But…

Sara Vida April 16, 2026
Somatic Healing
anxiety, Masking, Overwhelm
4 weeks ago
Why Do I Feel Drained After Socialising? (What’s Really Going On)

Not just tired, but mentally and emotionally depleted. Like something has been used up. You might notice you need space afterwards. Your mind keeps replaying the interaction. Or your energy drops suddenly…

Sara Vida April 14, 2026
Anxiety Therapist London
Boundaries, Mental Health, Nervous System Health, Overwhelm, People Pleasing, Personal Development, trauma aware
4 weeks ago
Why You Struggle to Set Boundaries (Even When You Know You Should)

You know what you want to say. You’ve thought about it, maybe even rehearsed it. You can hear the words clearly in your head. “I can’t do that.” “That doesn’t work for…

Sara Vida April 11, 2026
Anxiety Therapist London
anxiety, Boundaries, People Pleasing, trauma aware
4 weeks ago
How to Stop People Pleasing (Without Feeling Guilty)

You say yes when you want to say no. You agree to things you don’t have the energy for. You over explain yourself so you’re not misunderstood. You replay conversations afterwards wondering…

Sara Vida April 11, 2026
Anxiety Therapist UK
anxiety, Boundaries, Boundaries and Communication, Emotional Responsibility, Mental Health, nervous system, Nervous System Health, People Pleasing, Stress, trauma aware
1 month ago
Why Do I Feel Responsible for Others’ Emotions? And How to Stop

Why Do I Feel Responsible for Others’ Emotions? And How to Stop. You can feel it straight away. Someone walks into the room and their energy has shifted. They’re quieter than usual.…

Sara Vida April 8, 2026
Anxiety Therapist UK
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1 month ago
Tired But Can’t Relax? Why You Can’t Switch Off

Why can’t I relax even though I’m so tired?  You’re exhausted… but you still can’t switch off. You finally sit down at the end of the day, and instead of your body…

Sara Vida April 6, 2026
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